Erectile dysfunction
Getting support
Erectile dysfunction (ED) can be difficult to accept for many reasons.
But seeking help and support is the first step to overcoming the problem. Once you have tackled the hurdle of accepting help, getting the right support should improve your quality of life.
Professional help
It is very common for men with ED who have a physical cause of erection problems to suffer from psychological effects. Your doctor, nurse or diabetes team will explain about the connection between physical and psychological causes.
Our section on Causes will also help you understand this link. The information found on the right hand column of this page will give you a full explanation.
Try and feel at ease when talking to your healthcare professional about your sex life. If you are anxious, embarrassed or don’t know which words to use, write down what you want to say and take it with you.
This can help both the healthcare professional and you to open the consultation. Your doctor will be able to refer you, if necessary, to someone trained in this speciality.
There is also a wide range of treatment options available. Your doctor or nurse will explain the differences and help you to make the right choice. The link found on the right hand column of this page will give you further information.
Your partner
If you are having problems, try to discuss them with your partner (if you have one.) Open communication is important, as discussion can lead to greater understanding of each other’s sexual and emotional needs and prevent feelings of rejection. You may want to bring your partner with you when you see the doctor.
Other people’s experiences
It can be comforting to hear about people who are already experiencing similar problems. Read about other people's accounts by clicking on 'How erectile dysfunction affects me' found on the right hand column.
Talk to a professional counsellor
The Diabetes UK Careline is a helpline run by trained counsellors ready to listen. The Careline can provide confidential support and information on diabetes and related issues. All team members have extensive counselling skills and experience in giving advice.