It is very common for men with erectile dysfunction who have a physical cause of their erectile problems, to also experience some psychological effects.
It would be best, therefore, for any man who has erection difficulties to talk about the possible physical and psychological causes with his doctor, nurse or diabetes specialist.
If you do decide on professional help, try and feel at ease when talking to your healthcare professional about your sex life. Our checklist below will help prepare you for a conversation with a healthcare professional.
What might my doctor ask me?
As this is a very personal problem, you may feel embarrassed to talk about it. You may or may not want your partner to be present – it is your decision.
You have the right to ask to see a male doctor if that would make it easier for you. It might be useful to make a list of the sort of things you want to explain.
Your doctor will be listening to try to pinpoint what might be causing your erectile dysfunction. You may be asked some or all of the following questions, so do try to be honest and add anything which you feel may be helpful.
- Are you taking any medications?
- Have you had an operation recently?
- Do you suffer from nerve damage (neuropathy)?
- Are you suffering from depression or stress?
- Do you feel tired all the time?
- Do you sometimes get an erection in the morning, but find it difficult to get and maintain one when sexually aroused?
- Is there a problem in your relationship with your partner?
- Do you feel embarrassed by the sex act?
- Do you have a poor self image?
The first group of questions may link directly to your diabetes; the second group is more general.