'My glass is always half full'

I've had diabetes for 44 years - I was diagnosed with it when I have five years old.  In my early 20s I developed retinopathy as a result of poor management.  I corrected both the management and the eye problem. 

I was treated by nurses, doctors, friends and family with total sympathy.  "Oh it's so sad," they said. I'd hear family friends try to comfort my mother and father. 

The only one who gave me no sympathy was my mother.  She came to me one day and told me that I'd better get tough and get tough quick. 

She wouldn't allow a daughter of hers to become a pathetic victim.  She also informed me that ‘self pity’ on my part was not an option.  She was tough and loving.  She helped me learn how to be disciplined. 

But most of all she showed me how I was one of the lucky ones.  I had a family who loved me and supported me, great medical care and a condition that would only improve my life if I treated it properly. She was right. 

Angela (left) and her friend Mary at their MBA graduation last year

Stress wreaks havoc on diabetes and blood sugars.  My work is extremely stressful.  To combat the stress, I take time out to exercise...no matter what.  On the negative side, I have experienced prejudice in the work arena. 

I have been denied promotions because a ‘healthy’ man would be more dependable.  I was actually given this excuse by an employer - although they wouldn't put it in writing.

I am known for my positive and happy outlook in life.  The glass is always half full for me.  It's never been easy - but it's always been possible. 

I take this attitude in all aspects of life - work, love, family, finances, everything.  Diabetes will never be an easy disease to handle, but the better my attitude is and the harder I work, the easier it is to manage.

Angela Vengel